It’s been a crazy day. A simple link leading to a knock-down, drag-out war popped up everywhere I turned today.
A self-pubbed author received a mildly bad review and majorly blew it out of proportion. It was simultaneously hideous and humorous. Yet after seeing the same fight replayed over and over again got to be wearing.
Even more troubling were the reactions of the readers and commentors to the numerous blog posts, tweets and forum threads. In no time at all, people hopped on the attack wagon themselves.
Exhausting to say the least.
Then a writer friend of mine PMed me about the psychology of critiques in a thread. And I paraphrase: Doesn’t it seem like the tone of the first comment sets the outcome for all comments that follow?
Absolutely. 100%. Without a doubt.
Yes, yes and yes. People feel empowered when they have the seeming support of others. We forget to think for ourselves and let the ideas and opinions of others influence how we react. Especially if we were wishy-washy to begin with.
People used to get hanged by mobs. Innocent people had nooses slipped around their necks and the rumps of horses slapped out from under them simply because the mob mentality is so strong. Going against the grain of popular opinion can almost be a death sentence in and of itself. So bystanders either shut their mouths and allow atrocities to occur around them, or they jump on the back of the mob and shout their support regardless of how right or wrong a situation is.
We see this in schools, at parks, during rallies and on the internet. Everywhere a group of people meets and intermingles, the potential for us to lose our independence and fall in favor of the mob is there.
Have you ever been a part of mobbing? Wrote about it? Read it? What is an effective way to curb this behavior, if any? If not, how can we protect ourselves from getting sucked into this very explosive game?
What does this mentality mean to you as a writer and the way you handle yourself in the public view?